Should You Go Alone to a Therapist If Your Partner Refuses to Come Along?

By Carol Campbell Frequently it happens that when conflict emerges in a relationship, only one party is willing to consider calling a therapist, even when it is the couple's relationship that is the obvious cause for concern. Here are some of the most common reasons given for pushing away the idea of couple's counseling: * "You are the one with the real problem. Why should I have to go?" * "I'm